
My Climb to Personal Growth, and How I Conquered the Beast Inside

Jaye Lee
Business Strategist for Therapists & Coaches | ICF PCC | Scaled 3 Startups | Certified Mentor Coach & Supervisor | CEO Whisperer for the Helping Professions
As an entrepreneur, I’ve encountered many “mountains” over the years: scaling the steep cliffs of starting a business, navigating the rocky paths of strategy, and sometimes, just climbing the emotional peaks and valleys that come with the journey. Nothing could have prepared me for the revelation of The Mountain is You by Brianna Wiest. This book isn’t just another self-help guide that tells you to “dream big and hustle harder.” No, no, no!
The Mountain is You is about something much deeper: confronting the mountains inside of you.
Now, I’m no stranger to a challenge. I’ve spent years fine-tuning strategies for my businesses, analyzing the latest trends in entrepreneurship, and mastering the art of social media. But the real breakthrough didn’t come from implementing a new content plan or launching a marketing campaign. It came from learning to face the inner mountains, the ones that keep us stuck, stagnant, and unsure.
The Mountain Within: Meet Your Inner Villain
You’ve probably heard people say, “You’re your own worst enemy,” but when Brianna Wiest writes about it, she really means it. She presents the idea that the challenges we face, both in our personal lives and business ventures, often come from within. The mountain isn’t some external obstacle; it’s our internal struggles; self-doubt, fear of failure, procrastination, and perfectionism. These are the rocky terrains that slow us down. And let me tell you, as a business strategist, nothing is more frustrating than running a business while carrying the weight of your own self-imposed limitations.
As entrepreneurs, we can get so caught up in the external hustle; chasing the next trend, seeking validation, and building our social media empire that we often ignore the mountain inside. But until you face that internal mountain, every “external” mountain you climb will feel like it’s a little higher, a little steeper, and a little more exhausting.
Climbing the Mountain: From Self-Sabotage to Strategy
One of the most powerful lessons from The Mountain is You is that self-sabotage is a form of “self-protection.” We all do it.
We procrastinate.
We avoid difficult decisions.
We talk ourselves out of pursuing big goals.
It’s an easy trap to fall into as an entrepreneur. What Wiest helps us understand is that we often sabotage our own progress because we’re afraid of change. The mountain is you; your fear of failure, your fear of success, your fear of being judged by others and it holds you back from taking the leaps necessary for growth.
It’s like when you set a goal to launch a new product or service, but then you get caught up in the nitty-gritty details, questioning whether it will be perfect, or whether people will actually buy it. Instead of pushing through that discomfort, you end up postponing the launch, constantly refining and overthinking until you lose your momentum. Sound familiar? Yeah, I’ve been there too.
The good news is, that the more we understand our inner struggles and start dismantling them, the easier it becomes to move past them. As an entrepreneur, this insight has completely transformed my approach. Instead of chasing every shiny object and worrying about the latest business trend, I’m learning to trust the process and confront my fears. The mountain isn’t something to climb; it’s something to learn from and ultimately, conquer.
Turning Your Fears Into Fuel: JOMO Over FOMO
Let’s talk about a concept I’ve been diving into lately: JOMO (Joy of Missing Out) because as an entrepreneur, you cannot say yes to everything. FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) will have you running in circles, frantically trying to keep up with every trend and influencer in the market. JOMO is where the magic happens. The joy of saying no, of missing out on the noise, allows you to double down on what truly matters. The Mountain is You aligns perfectly with JOMO. By saying no to distractions and taking a deep breath to focus on yourself, you clear the space to climb higher and reach your true potential.
When was the last time you sat down to reflect on your business without checking your email or scrolling through your social media feed? It’s difficult, right? We live in a world where FOMO is practically a lifestyle. But when you embrace JOMO, you’re choosing intentional growth. You’re saying, “No, I won’t jump on this bandwagon because it doesn’t align with my values.” You’re taking control.
Nothing feels more empowering than that.
Read my article on JOMO: https://www.linkedin.com/posts/jaye-lee_fomo-jomo-jomo-activity-7262668093187862528-Fy4f?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop&rcm=ACoAACUWytkB_JhQj2io346aoDxcLetZQb-HQkE
The Real Climb
The Mountain is You isn’t just a metaphor for personal development. It’s a strategic blueprint. It’s about breaking down the internal walls that prevent you from seeing opportunities clearly. As a business strategist, I now recognize how personal growth directly impacts professional success. When I prioritize my own well-being, clarity of thought, and emotional resilience, my business thrives. Building a business that not only grows but evolves with you as you evolve.
Personal growth is not just a buzzword. It’s not just some fluffy term people throw around to sound motivational. In the world of business strategy, it’s everything. A well-rounded entrepreneur who can manage their internal mountains is the one who will outlast the competition. After all, no amount of social media followers, viral posts, or high-ticket launches will matter if you’re constantly battling your own inner demons.
Conquer Your Mountain, Become Your Own Success Story
The Mountain is You is more than just a book about personal development. It’s about recognizing that the only person who can truly get in the way of your entrepreneurial journey is you.
The mountain is your fear.
The mountain is your doubt.
The mountain is your old, limiting beliefs.
But it can also be the foundation of your greatest success.
So, the next time you find yourself staring up at the mountain, wondering how the heck you’re going to get to the top, remember this:
You don’t have to climb it alone. You don’t have to rush the process.
Embrace the climb. And when you do, you’ll realize that the summit isn’t as important as the transformation you undergo on the way up.
Ready to Conquer Your Mountain? It’s time to take control, make peace with the process, and rise above your fears. Let’s face it together, one step at a time.
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